4t “Depression spares no one – even priests”: Cebu archbishop delivers heartbreaking speech at Father Cocoi Olmilla’s funeral, moves entire church to tears

Cebu Archbishop Alberto “Abet” Uy recently delivered a heartfelt and urgent message about mental health during the Funeral Mass of Fr. Decoroso “Cocoi” Olmilla, held at the Cebu Metropolitan Cathedral on November 18, 2025. With compassion and gravity, he emphasized that depression is a real and serious condition that can affect anyone, including priests and members of the clergy.

In his homily, Archbishop Uy reminded the faithful that priests, often seen as pillars of strength and guidance, are also human beings who face the same vulnerabilities and struggles as everyone else. “Sometimes we forget this,” he said, “We expect priests to be strong, steady, joyful, and available at all times. But the priests carry the same human frailty as everyone.” This candid acknowledgment challenges the stigma around mental health suffering within the Church and encourages a more empathetic understanding.

The context of this message was deeply personal and poignant, coming in the wake of the tragic death of Fr. Olmilla, who was found lifeless after a severe mental health breakdown. The Archdiocese of Cebu publicly confirmed that depression and emotional turmoil were significant factors leading to this heartbreaking loss, shining a spotlight on the urgent need for mental health support among clergy members.

Archbishop Uy’s words go beyond this tragedy. They serve as a call to action for the entire community, urging everyone to care for their own mental well-being and to offer compassion to those silently struggling. He emphasized that depression is neither a sign of weakness nor a lack of faith, but a genuine health issue that deserves attention, understanding, and treatment.

The Archbishop also highlighted the unique pressures priests endure—bearing spiritual responsibilities, emotional burdens, and often experiencing isolation—which can compound their risk of emotional distress. His message is a reminder that mental health conversations should encompass all sectors, including religious leaders who are commonly expected to embody unwavering strength.

The Church in Cebu is advocating for increased awareness, support mechanisms, and resources to help clergy and laypeople alike address mental health challenges. Archbishop Uy’s homily stands as a compassionate invitation to break the silence and stigma surrounding depression.

In remembering Fr. Olmilla’s dedicated service and the loss to the community, the Archbishop encouraged ongoing prayers and solidarity, underscoring hope for healing and mercy. His powerful acknowledgment of mental health reflects a growing recognition that spiritual care also requires attending to psychological well-being.

This moment in Cebu is a profound reminder of the universal nature of mental health challenges and the importance of empathy, care, and open discussion to foster healthier, more supportive communities.