AT. The “Unthinkable” Couple: Elon Musk and Amber Heard — He Struggles with a Neurological Syndrome, She Battles Mental Disorders, and Sees Her Lover as a “Spare Tire”
Elon Musk interfered in Johnny Depp-Amber Heard’s family affairs before they divorced, but was only a “spare tire”.

In 2016, the love affair between Elon Musk and Amber Heard captured widespread media attention. Although the couple broke up after about two years of dating, this high-profile relationship continues to fascinate the public.
Yet few realize that both celebrities face neurological and psychological challenges. During the recent $50 million defamation trial between Johnny Depp and his ex-wife Amber Heard, the public was stunned to learn that Heard reportedly considered Musk a “spare tire” while still harboring feelings for her ex-husband.
The Unlikely Couple
In May 2021, Elon Musk publicly revealed on Saturday Night Live that he has Asperger’s syndrome, a neurobiological condition associated with autism and difficulties in social communication. According to research by Professor Simon Baron-Cohen in the UK, individuals with Asperger’s can achieve exceptional success if they find suitable life goals. Otherwise, they may struggle with social integration and become targets for bullying.
For the media, this revelation was not particularly shocking. Musk, currently one of the world’s richest individuals, simultaneously runs four companies and has revolutionized multiple industries.
The surprising twist lies in the fact that Musk once dated Amber Heard for two years—a woman recently diagnosed with mental health conditions.
During the $50 million lawsuit, Dr. Shannon Curry, a psychologist on Johnny Depp’s legal team, provided a psychological assessment of Amber Heard based on prior evaluations using the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory (MMPI). Dr. Curry concluded that Heard exhibited symptoms of two mental disorders: Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD).

BPD is characterized by unstable moods, thoughts, and behaviors, affecting how individuals perceive themselves, others, and situations. This can lead to confusion, extreme sensitivity, and a tendency to react impulsively or aggressively.
HPD, on the other hand, involves attention-seeking behavior, dramatization, and charm. Individuals with HPD are highly sensitive to criticism or disapproval, easily influenced by others, and often have a distorted self-image.
“Crazy” Meets “Neurodivergent”
For billionaire Elon Musk, openly admitting to a neurodivergent condition has rarely caused public backlash—except perhaps among cryptocurrency traders. His controversial statements, high-stakes challenges, selling Tesla stock to pay taxes, and noisy acquisition of Twitter are often overshadowed by his contributions to technology and society.
Whether viewed as eccentric or genius, Musk has played a key role in the electric car revolution, space-based internet, and other groundbreaking projects. Regardless of controversy, he remains one of the richest men in the world.
Amber Heard, however, has faced public boycotts following her highly publicized disputes with Johnny Depp. From accusations of personal misconduct to dramatic incidents such as allegedly defecating on the bed, her marital history with Depp has been repeatedly scrutinized in court.
According to Depp’s bodyguard, he once paid a homeless person $420 and purchased a taco and Fiji water in exchange for a smartphone. The phone, originally belonging to Depp, had been thrown out of a window by Heard during a 2016 argument.

Despite the chaos, Heard dated Musk before officially divorcing Depp. Security cameras captured Musk visiting Heard’s home during this period in 2016. The couple dated for two years, but emails later revealed by former manager Christiano Carino indicated that Heard never truly loved Musk and remained emotionally attached to Depp.
According to the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU), Heard reportedly used Musk to cover part of the $7 million in assets she had promised to donate to charity following her divorce. As of now, she has yet to complete the full donation, citing financial difficulties.
Conclusion
The story of Elon Musk and Amber Heard illustrates a unique intersection of brilliance, neurodivergence, and complex human relationships. While Musk continues to innovate and shape global industries, Heard’s personal and legal controversies have kept her in the public eye. Their two-year relationship, framed by psychological and neurological dynamics, remains one of the most talked-about celebrity romances of the decade.


